Archive for December, 2008

16
Dec

don’t judge a book by its cover.. so how to judge it??

salam kepada sapa yang baca..ni just pandangan.xnak terima pun xpa..

ramai yg menggunakan istilah ‘don’t judge a book by its cover’ bila ada orang memberi komen yg tidak baik kepada diri mereka. bagi aku mende ni ada betul dan x berapa betul juga. yang betulnya, mmg kita x boleh suka2 nak judge orang.sbb kadang2 kita xda hak pun nak judge orang.lain la kalo keje ko mmg judge kat mahkamah.tu mmg dah tanggungjawab ko nak judge orang. tp kalo ko jumpa orang tepi jalan, pastu tetiba ko nak judge dia,mcm x berapa nak kena la.

yg x berapa nak betul plak, bila orang bg contoh dgn membandingkan pompuan pakai tudung or sopan dgn yg pakai x berapa nak sopan. ada yg kata, orang yg pakai tudung tu x semestinya baik, yg pkai x berapa nak sopan tu x semestinya jahat..mcm pelik pula aku bila dgr contoh ni.sbbnya dia mcm nak tutup kelemahan diri sendiri dgn menimbulkan keraguan terhadap benda baik yang orang lain buat.. ada manusia bila ada ditegur kenapa x pakai tudung (tutup aurat muslimah), dia jawab ‘kalau pakai tudung pun ada yang berzina juga’..pastu dia rasa dalam diri dia dah cukup hebat..ni la spesis kambing.kenapa aku ckp camtu? sbb dia x faham..hukum tutup aurat itu wajib x kira dia baik ke jahat, janji dia muslim or muslimah..mmg la ada yg pakai tutup aurat tu ada buat jahat, tp at least dia tutup aurat, itu dah confirm dia lagi baik(dr aspek pemakaian) dr yg duk pakai rambut palsu,pastu dye plak tu..ini x, bila nak buat suatu kebaikan je mesti nak ada sebab..kononnya luaran x penting,hati yg penting..mana boleh camtu..kalo ada yg ckp camtu,suruh dia gi melawat wad psikiatri..suruh dia survey brapa ramai patient yg kat situ x mengaku gila..kalo kes camtu boleh percaya ke??

kalau ada yang x setuju dgn pandangan ni, ckp la.aku sedia menerima pendpat gak..

01
Dec

The differences between believe and faith..

The following article is solely from my opinion..it might different from others opinion..

What are the differences between when we believe someone and have faith in someone? For me, the differences is ‘evidence’..When we believe in someone, it was bases on the evidence that we get..Some times, we even need a reason to believe what people say to us..

For example, when we said that we love someone, the person will start to ask “What make you love me?”. when there were no reason to be convey, they will start to put hesitation in what you said..but if they got the lousy answer such as ‘Because you are beautiful’, ‘because you are the nicest person in the world’, or even ‘you are the perfect mum/dad for my kids’, they will believe you..

For the person that had faith in you, they will take what you said without any question..They will take it as what it is.If you want to know whether your friend had faith in you, try to borrow money from them..If they just ask back “how much you want and when you want?”, that mean they had faith in you..but if they start to ask “what do you want to do with the money?, when will you pay back?”, that was a sign of insecurity and no total faith on you..

Do not blame others is they don’t have faith in you, because we also don’t have faith in others..=)